Directed by Lindsey Haun
Dir of Photography: Ruel Lee
Featuring: Shannon Murray
Edited by Mary Scholz and Lindsey Haun
Assistant Editor: Katherine Irwin
Color: Adam Bial and Lindsey Haun
Produced by Mary Scholz and Lindsey Haun
[Learn more about the production itself, HERE]
About the video and song…
Sometimes, when we reach the end of a relationship – a very necessary end, that you didn’t even know was building up inside of you, we make big, bold decisions.
Something to break you free of where you were.
Sometimes, it feels as if we’ve done something hideous, and huge.
It’s usually shocking to others.
They didn’t see it coming. They don’t understand.
But they don’t need to. Only you do.
The thing about abuse is that it doesn’t have to come from your lover.
It could come from a friend.
A family member.
The thing about abuse is that it doesn’t always manifest in violence.
It doesn’t always show it’s bruises.
The thing about abuse is that it can be mental.
The thing about abuse is that it can come from someone who has other, non abusive qualities.
The thing about abuse is that it doesn’t just effect the relationship it’s happening in.
It doesn’t just effect the way you are with one another, or the way you feel.
It begins to effect the way you treat other people.
Abuse is given, and then abuse is learned.
That’s what this video is about.
That person you become when you’ve been abused, for too long, and you begin to abuse in return.
The song, I wrote from the perspective of someone taking an axe to their relationship in order to end it, and start fresh on the other side.
Not an actual axe, not an actual murder – just the final end to something that needed to end long before.
The moment when you wake up, and realize what this relationship has been doing to you. How you’ve been manipulated. Made small. Abused.
The moment you say “Enough is Enough.”
The video features two women, because I wanted to explore the blurry line of intimacy in female friendships, and the ways it’s used in unhealthy ones. Relationships where they keep each other down, in order to keep each other close. We can talk more about that later.
For now, I’ll just say this.
I do not support or condone violence.
But I do support the healthy end to an unhealthy relationship.